Celebrating Father's Day: Savoring the Moments with My Dad
My dad passed away seventeen years ago.
Over the years, I've found unique ways to honor his memory, savoring the moments we shared and the lessons he left behind. Here's how I keep his spirit alive each year on Father's Day. These activities can be meaningful whether your dad is with you or not.
Sharing His Love of Food
When my dad passed, my mom thought it would be helpful for us to see a therapist. She said giving back would have a tremendous impact on my grief and healing. She was right. I started Culinary Care because there was nowhere I could share my dad’s passion for food.
But, I also give monthly to Culinary Care as a member of The Line, and that’s something everyone can do. I love knowing that every month someone gets to look forward to a meal the way my dad did.
If your dad is still with you, give a monthly gift that matches his age (if he’ll share!). If your dad is no longer with us, give a monthly gift in honor of how many years have passed.
Visiting His Favorite Restaurant
Many of his favorite spots have closed over the years, but I find places that emulate the spirit of what he loved. He loved good jazz music, playing pool, or an arcade—places that gave us a chance to experience something special. Finding these types of locations is a way to savor the moments we spent together, to remember his smile, and to celebrate the joy he found in those simple, yet profound, experiences.
Some of my Dad’s favorites that are still around:
Honoring His Traditions
Every Sunday, breakfast with Dad was something we always looked forward to. Sometimes, there’d be bagels or donuts waiting for us when we woke up. Other times, we’d go to his favorite cafe. As much as I’d like to say that I always plan a big Father’s Day, that’s not always the case. There have been many years where it escaped me, but sometimes the simple things are perfect. I’ll make sure to find a chance to get a donut or grab a bagel, and it’s a delicious way to savor the moments we shared.
Hitting the Golf Range
Golf was another passion of my dad's, and he spent countless hours perfecting his swing and enjoying the game. On Father's Day, I visit the golf range, taking some time to hit a few balls in his honor. As I practice my swing, I can almost hear his voice offering tips and encouragement. It's a way to savor the moments we spent together on the course, to feel close to him, and to celebrate his love for the game. If your dad is still around, a trip to the golf range or playing a round of golf together can create lasting memories and deepen your connection.
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Celebrating Father's Day without my dad here in person is never easy, but these traditions bring comfort and joy. They help me feel connected to him and keep his spirit alive in my heart. Through sharing his love of food, donating monthly, visiting his favorite restaurant, preparing our cherished dish, and hitting the golf range, I savor the moments we shared and celebrate the incredible man he was. For those fortunate enough to still have their dads with them, these activities can help you create new memories and cherish the moments you have together.
Happy Father's Day, Dad. Your memory is a treasure, and your love continues to guide me every day. And to those celebrating with their fathers, savor every moment—you are building a lifetime of cherished memories.
Sincerely,
~ Your daughter, Courtney
